Do you ever feel you don’t have time to do anything – because you are too busy doing everything?
I’m feeling that way this month. I’m participating in Picture Book Idea Month (PiBoIdMo) – reading inspiring daily posts from authors and illustrators on Tara Lazar’s blog and trying to come up with at least one sparkling spark of an idea for a new picture book story. It’s going pretty well…I’ve got way more than 15 ideas – and the month is only half over.
I’m also taking Mira Reisberg’s Illustrating Children’s Picture Books because I had a crazy idea that maybe one day I might be able to illustrate my own stories!!!! Last week I had to create thumbnails for one of my stories – a kind of a storyboard with a small sketch for each scene. This week I had to develop some character sketches for my main character, a little boy who wants to catch a bug to be his pet. I’m putting my work up here to encourage every person who reads this post that it is okay to try things that are out of your comfort zone – you won’t break the world, your computer, or yourself – and you just might discover something that you love doing!
Now, if you can all stop rolling on the floor in laughter, I can continue with our Perfect Picture Book Friday book review and craft activity.
Today I have a triple decker treat for you. Parents and teachers are always looking for picture books that do a great job helping kids develop empathy and compassion. Well, here are three unique books that use photographs of Bonobo monkeys to tell the stories. Author Anne Paris is a Clinical Psychologist and empathy expert. She is in private practice in Cincinnati, Ohio, and works with individuals and families.
Written by Dr. Anne Paris
Photography by Marian Brickner
Publisher: CreateSpace (2013)
Themes: Empathy, compassion, feelings
“Hi there! My name is Laney. This is me and my mommy when I was a baby. I feel special and safe when my mommy holds me.
We are bonobo apes (that’s buh-noh-boh) and we are a lot like you. We just have more hair.
We like to be together and feel best when we use the empathy way. The empathy way means you try to understand each other’s feelings.”
From Amazon: Laney the bonobo introduces young children to the concept of empathy: what it is, why it’s important, and how to do it. She shows how empathy feels good, builds good family and friend relationships, and how empathy goes two ways, back and forth. Cute pictures of bonobo apes engage and delight young and old alike.
Why I like this book:
- Simple text that explains what empathy is and how we can be empathetic
- Incredible collection of photographs of bonobo monkeys that will engage children
How a parent can use this book:
- Read the book with your child and talk about feelings
- Role play different situations – if you thought a friend was mad at you, for instance, how would you feel? What could you do?
At the back of the Dr. Paris’ first book is an empathy wand craft that you can help your child cut out. Here are three that are quite simple to make…all you need is a pencil and a piece of construction paper and some markers or crayons and a tiny piece of scotch tape.
- Let your child decide what he or she would like at the top of the wand.
- Draw the shape, color it in and cut it out.
- Use a small piece of scotch tape to attach the cutout to the pencil.
- Paris suggests that the child use the wand to think about how other people are feeling or when he wants others to know how he is feeling.
The other books in the Empathy Series are:
From Amazon: Jenga and Laney are playing and minding their own business, when a bigger bonobo, Neeley, starts to harass them. Expressive photographs of bonobo apes illustrate how it feels to be bullied, what kids should do, and how adults can intervene effectively. The adults use empathy to help Neeley understand the reasons for her bad behavior and how she can get her wish to feel big and important in less hurtful ways. An important book in helping young children develop empathy in order to prevent bullying.
From Amazon: Jenga the bonobo teaches a poignant lesson about using empathy to connect with others who are “different.” Ridiculously cute photographs of bonobo apes illustrate the story of Jenga and Kaleb (a bald bonobo who looks different). At first, Jenga and his friends assume Kaleb is weird. But then empathy helps them move past their assumptions and get to know him. To their surprise and delight, Kaleb is funny and talented! Jenga and his friends discover a wonderful lesson about finding the secret value in everyone, even the outcasts.
This is an amazing trio of books – and there is also a Teacher’s Manual available. To find out more about Dr. Paris and her program, please visit: http://www.EmpathyWay.com
If you are looking for more great picture book suggestions, hop over to Susanna Leonard Hill’s blog where you will find a bunch more hand-picked picture book reviews with activities for you and your child. If you are a mom, teacher or librarian, please check out Susanna’s amazing Perfect Picture Book page with over 1000 categorized picture book reviews and activities.
And I hope everyone will come back tomorrow for Will Write for Cookies. Our author in the spotlight will be:
LAURA PURDIE SALAS
Laura is a multi-published author of picture books such as A Leaf Can Be and Water Can Be, as well as a well-spring of knowledge for writers.