For the past couple of days, I’ve been sharing my thoughts about the 1st day of school and how to help your child with any fears or anxieties he may have.

But, what about your fears and anxieties?  Many of you have concerns about your child attending school and the concerns can mushroom as your child gets older.  That’s probably why many parents are turning to homeschooling in recent years.  According to an article in USA Today (1/2009) based on a government survey, homeschooling increased 74% from 1999 to 2007.

http://www.usatoday.com/news/education/2009-01-04-homeschooling_N.htm

So, what are some of the top fears and concerns you may have about sending your child off to her first day of school?

1. Your child may be bullied or hurt by other children.
2. Your child may be made fun of because of his name, appearance, or style of speech or clothing.
3. The teacher may not be structured enough or may be too structured or may not understand your child or may not be attentive enough to your child.
4. There may be unsafe conditions at the school.
5. Your child may be in an accident traveling to or from school whether he walks, takes the bus or is driven by you or another adult.
6. Your child may hear things or be taught things that are not acceptable in your home.
7. Your child may be afraid or too shy to speak up for herself (to ask to use the bathroom or if she needs something).
8. Your child may not “fit” in.
9. Your child may reveal a family secret or personal information.
10. You may miss your child.

The key word in each concern is MAY….we are worrying about possibilities, not actualities.  Tomorrow I plan to blog about some steps you can take (other than keeping your child at home) that address many of these concerns and may alleviate some of your anxieties.

Also, I’m sure there are other concerns that I haven’t mentioned.  Why not post a comment and share yours?