Follow-Me-Fridays: Where’s Miss Vivian?

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St. Patrick’s Day was yesterday…and the luck of the Irish was definitely with me. 

I had the most wonderful day!

Early morning found me at Taylor School again, visiting with the kindergarten children in back-to-back story presentations.

We read Cornelius P. Mud, Are You Ready For Bed?

When I walked into the first kindergarten room, I did a double-take!  The children were dressed in pajamas!  At first, I thought that the teacher had requested this because the picture book story is about a little pig who is getting ready for bed…and putting on his pajamas is one of his tasks.

It turns out that Thursday was Pancakes and Pajamas Day…and all of the kindergarten children were dressed in their favorite PJ’s.  Some even had robes and slippers…I was definitely jealous…they looked so comfy.

So it was really the perfect setting to read a story about getting ready for bed…and the children did not disappoint…they were eager to discuss the story and knew right away how silly Cornelius was when he fed the gold fish his chocolate chip cookies. 🙂

After reading and discussing the story, the children were ready to move to their tables to construct a No Tick-Tock Clock with movable hands.  I was impressed with their ability to write all of the numbers of the construction paper clock face and I know they will enjoy taking the clocks home and using them to help them get to bed “on-time”.

The second presentation differed a little because we ran out of time and were not able to do the craft project.  The teacher found a wonderful alternative…she handed out small resin-board clocks to groups of three students each…and then drew a digital clock on the board.  Each child had an opportunity to read the digital time and then use the  numeral clock with movable hands to show the correct time.

Telling time is an important skill for young children to learn…and especially today, with digital clocks in most places, parents and teachers need to make sure that children know how to tell time “the old-fashioned” way.

Leaving Taylor School, I headed over to Columbia School, where I had an appointment to be interviewed by two students who had a job shadow assignment.  As each of them aspires to be an author, they wanted to talk to someone who had published a book so that they could find out what was involved.  I had brought the rough drafts of my SHOW ME HOW! book and also the original mock-up of one of the picture books I’ve written.  That mock-up was written over 30 years ago…so it was interesting for them to see it and then to see the finished product with illustrations by my talented daughter-in-law.

The 4th-graders had LOTS of questions…when did I know I wanted to be a writer…and what inspired me to write?  What do I do in a normal day and do I use paper and pen or the computer?  How did I contact a publisher?  Does the author hire the illustrator or does the publisher handle that. 

My advice to them was to follow their dream and never give up.  It takes a lot of patience and hard work and perseverance to succeed at ANYTHING…and writing is no different.  I encouraged them to have confidence in themselves and in what they hope to accomplish.

SHOW ME HOW! BUILD YOUR CHILD’S SELF-ESTEEM THROUGH READING, CRAFTING AND COOKING is all about instilling a sense of competence and confidence in your young children.  Children with a positive self-image are more likely to take on new tasks and accept new challenges.  Isn’t that what we want for our children?

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Healthy Habit Thursdays: 5 Great Tips Before You Visit The Doctor

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I had to visit an urgent care facility recently because my cough sounded like I had a cage full of lions in my chest.  The on-call doctor was very helpful and reassured me that it was “just” a simple upper respiratory infection…and she sent me home with instructions to stay hydrated, rest and take various medications she had prescribed.

When I got home, head muddled with feeling ill and medications, I was glad I had written down the instructions while I had been with the doctor. 

It made me realize that there are a few tips I could share with everyone, whether they are going to the doctor for themselves or for their children.

1.   Get a small spiral notebook.  On the inside cover list your doctors and dentists names, addresses and telephone numbers, along with the same information about your local hospital and the closest urgent care walk-in clinic.

2.   Make a copy of your health insurance card (both sides), if you have one, and tape this to the inside of the notebook.  In an emergency, if your card is lost or misplaced, at least you will have the information you need and you will also be able to call your company regarding getting a new card.

3.   Use this notebook to jot down symptoms and questions before you go to see your doctor or before you call to make an appointment.  So often, in the “heat of the moment”, we forget to voice some of our concerns, and we go home with questions unanswered.

4.   It’s also a good idea to take the notebook to the doctor’s office to jot down his instructions.  How often do you get home and have to call the doctor’s office back (after they have left for the day) to clarify whether to use a heat pack or an ice pack or how many times a day to take certain medications?

5.   Take a drive past your local hospital, if you’ve never been there.  If it’s a nice day and you have children, park the car and take a walk around the grounds.  Go inside and visit the cafeteria for a snack.  If your child ever has to go to the hospital, he or she will remember this pleasant afternoon and may be less anxious.  Swinging by the nearest urgent care facility is a good idea also…instead of waiting until there is an emergency and you are searching for it with a sick and screaming child in the car.

Do you have any tips to add that might help others?  Please share!

And please stop by tomorrow for Follow-Me-Fridays: Where’s Miss Vivian?  I’ll be sharing my visit with Taylor School kindergartens and also my interview with two 4th-grade students who want to job shadow an author.  If you hop over to my website, you can purchase a copy of SHOW ME HOW! and enter to win a WONDERFUL PRIZE for your preschooler.

What’s In Your Child’s Bookcase Wordy Wednesday: HOOT AND HOLLER

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Friendship…something human beings cannot live without.

Today’s story recommendation is about friends who learn the importance of voicing their feelings about each other.

HOOT AND HOLLER

Written by Alan Brown

Illustrated by Rimantas Rolia

Holler, a big owl, and Hoot, a little owl, played together every night in the woods.  They were both shy, and neither friend spoke of how he felt about the other.  A storm separated the two owls and each worried that he would never find his best friend.  A wise old owl advised Holler to call out loudly for Hoot.  Although Holler was very shy and had never been able to raise his voice, he found the courage to call very loudly…and Hoot heard him!  They found each other and were overjoyed and were finally able to express their feelings of love.

How difficult it is to express one’s feelings sometimes!  We can help our children by being good role models…don’t wait for a special occasion to tell your child that you love him.  Children need to know they are loved every day of their lives.   And, although the verbal confirmation of your love is important, you need to show your child as well…with Positive Parental Participation!

Yesterday’s Quotable Timeless Tuesday’s post was all about friendship…but I saved one for today because it fit so perfectly with the story of Hoot and Holler and not telling our friends how we feel about them.

“Do not save your loving speeches,

For your friends till they are dead.

Do not write them on their tombstones,

Speak them rather now instead.”Anna Cummins

In the same way, please don’t save your praise and loving words for your children…speak them every day.  The tragic events in Japan give voice to our awareness that each day is precious and tomorrow is not guaranteed.

For more gentle parenting tips and 99 other picture book recommendations, please visit my website where you can pick up a copy of SHOW ME HOW! at half-price AND enter to win a FREE Crafty Easter Basket filled with craft supplies for your preschooler.

Please stop by tomorrow for Healthy Habit Thursdays.