De-clutter Equals De-Stress

Posted on January 6, 2011 by viviankirkfield

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Did you know that living in a cluttered environment actually adds to your stress level?

It’s doubly hard for me because I would like to be organized and live more minimalistically, but my husband is a collector…of many things! Books, all things flyfishing, art supplies (he has taken up painting and is really very good). So you can imagine how difficult it is to keep things neat and in their proper places because we have so much STUFF that we sometimes run out of the proper places and stuff winds up on tables, chairs…even the back of the couch! If this sounds familiar, maybe the list of books below will help.

I am always waiting for the BIG block of time to REALLY get organized 🙂 but I think the secret is to simply make a decision to DO IT and when you have an hour or a half hour, clear one drawer or one table and just keep at it. Even if it takes a month or more, eventually you will be more organized and surrounded by less clutter. AHHHHHHHH!

There are hundreds of books available on organizing and cleaning up clutter. I’ve listed just a few you might want to get from the library or bookstore if you’ve decided to organize and want some more direction. Some of the books listed are geared for homes with children…children definitely benefit from living in an organized environment also! You can also go online and find a wealth of ideas.

1. Helping Kids Get Organized – Activities That Teach Time Management, Clutter Clearing, Project Planning and More by Robyn Freedman Spizman

2. Organized Kidz: E-Z solutions for Clutter-Free Living by Debbie and David Williams

3. Stop Clutter From Wrecking Your Family: Organize Your Children, Spouse and Home by Mike Nelson

4. Organized Living: Clutter Clearing Strategies and Creative Storage Solutions by Dawne Walter and Helen Chislett

My husband asked me the other day what my New Year’s resolutions were…now I know. In addition to trying to blog EVERY day with something of value, I am going to take my own advice and grab an hour or half hour every day and clear out one drawer, cabinet, counter or whatever…I promise to blog in a month and update everyone with my progress.

10 Simple Steps to a Simplier Life for 2011

Posted on January 4, 2011 by viviankirkfield

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I don’t know about you, but two of the biggest stressors in my life are clutter and disorder…often found together in the same drawer, closet or room. So, it stands to reason that simplifying and organizing…drawer, closet, home or life…will go a long way to minimizing the stress in our lives…helpful for all of us, wouldn’t you say?

1. Whether you are cleaning out a closet, room or garage…look over what you have and toss, give away or sell what you don’t need.

2. Group your possessions into categories: for example, in your closet, hang all the slacks together, all the shirts, etc. with your child’s toys, store puzzles in one section, balls in a separate box, etc.

3. Keep things you use often easily available. Items like Christmas decorations can be boxed and stored in attic or basement or on that hard to reach shelf in the closet.

4. Identify storage spaces and containers so things are always where you can find them and put them away again…bills, health care info, coupons, etc. Inexpensive storage bins and tubs can be purchased at stores like Home Depot or Target.

5. For your child, cut out pictures of clothing items and tape them to the appropriate drawers to help him locate and put away his clothes.

6. Ditto for toy shelves…use stackable plastic bins or similar storage containers (like the ones you will make in the Creative Corner project) to house toys and supplies such as drawing paper and crayons. Paste a picture, as well as the word, of the contents on the outside of the container to help your child locate the proper place when he is cleaning up his toys.

7. Utilize under-the-bed storage bins if closet space is at a premium for out-of-season clothing and items such as wrapping paper and old photos.

8. Regarding your clothes…two important mantras…if it doesn’t fit, get rid of it AND if you haven’t worn it in a year, toss it or give it away or sell it.

9. Regarding your child’s clothing…even if you are saving it all for future children or giving it all away or selling it at a consignment shop…do save a few favorite items from babyhood on. A lovely memory mini-quilt can be sewn (or glued onto a piece of cardboard if you aren’t handy with needle and thread) from small pieces of the different fabrics and then framed. This would make a lovely wall hanging in your child’s room or a wonderful gift for a beloved grandparent.

10.In a cardboard box, plastic storage bin or upscale organizer, store necessary items by category: stationery/mailing, essential tools/flashlight, first aid kit, etc. Keep the box or bin or organizer located in the area where you will most likely be carrying out that particular task. This tip alone will save you hours of time you would have spent looking for a stamp, hammer or gauze pad.

Tune in tomorrow for a picture book suggestion and craft project and cooking activity you will be able to do with your preschooler with the time you saved not having to search for those missing keys. 🙂

How to Avoid the “Last Minute” Blues

Posted on January 3, 2011 by viviankirkfield

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Mary glanced at the clock and felt her heart start racing…the doctor’s appointment was in 15 minutes and the doctor’s office was 10 minutes away. The breakfast she had set out on the table was still uneaten and her 4-year old son was running around upstairs, searching for a missing shoe. Hurrying up the stairs, she shouted, “We are going to be late because of you!”

Are you shaking your head up and down because you recognize this scenario? I can replay in my mind several similar episodes that occurred when my children were young. Anyone who says that keeping a family running smoothly (and on time) has obviously not been a parent.

But, there are solutions to this problem! Lack of planning and organization are the root causes…there is a saying that if you fail to plan, you are planning to fail. If you sometimes (or often) find yourself searching for that missing shoe or you would like to put in place a few simple routines for the New Year that will help de-stress your life, perhaps the following simple suggestions will help.

Put a calendar near the phone for logging in appointments and other important dates and times. You can even set up a calendar for your child to keep in his room (free ones are usually available at pharmacies and other stores at this time of year). He will enjoy marking his own calendar with his own very important dates (his birthday, his friends’ birthdays, special outings, etc.).
Before going to bed (maybe as part of his special bed-time ritual), help your child choose his clothes for the next day (or let him choose his own…just make sure that if it is winter, you have put the bathing suits away). In addition, check the calendar to see what is scheduled for the next day and get ready any other items needed (i.e. library books that are due at the library).
Attach a short clothesline (about 12 inches long and equipped with clothespins) or a store-bought or homemade rack with hooks or pegs on a wall near your exit door (front, back or side, wherever the family goes in and out) and have your child hang up his gloves, hat, scarf, etc. when he comes in. If the items are damp, they will dry out much better this way than if left in coat pockets or stuffed in a book bag. In addition, they will be ready at a moment’s notice when your child needs them and you will immediately be aware if one of the mittens or gloves is missing.
Hang a key rack in a convenient place so that all family members who have keys (house, car, etc.) will automatically hang them up when they come in. This will save many precious minutes (or hours) of time because no one will have to look for the keys when it is time to go out. I can’t tell you how many times we searched our home looking for a set of keys that turned up to be “hiding” under a pile of papers on the dining room table. How stressful….and what a waste of precious time!
Try to avoid the pitfall of too much activity…although it is important for our children to be offered many different types of activities (karate class, dance class, nursery school, etc.), one-on-one quality time with YOU is the most important, whether it is reading a story or participating in a craft project or cooking activity or just sitting together watching cloud formations roll by.