Martha Washington: America’s First First Lady

Happy George Washington’s Birthday, Perfect Picture Book Friday (over at Susanna Leonard Hill) and The Beauty of a Woman Blogfest II (over at August McLaughlin)






Luckily, I found a book that applies to ALL THREE.


Martha Washington: America’s First First Lady

Written by Jean Brown Wagoner

Publisher: Aladdin (1986)

Ages: 7 and up


Believe in oneself, be yourself, strong girls and women, follow your dreams

Opening Lines:

“The Dandridges had company. There was nothing unusual about that. They often had company, but this was someone special. Mr. Dandridges’ sister, Mary, had come from England. She had sailed across the ocean to visit her brothers in Virginia. In 1738, that was a great adventure.”


This story gives us a picture of the childhood of Martha Washington, America’s original First Lady. It also gives us a picture of life in the early 18th Century…Martha’s family were wealthy colonists in the New World.

Why  I like this book:

This is a chapter book from the 1980’s. Kids learn about the men who have been president of this country…but not much is taught about their wives. This book gives a wonderful picture of the strong young girl who grew up to be First Lady. Martha Washington was a gracious hostess and, although she objected to the rigid life as wife of the president, she had been raised to fulfill her responsibilities and she stood by his side. She stayed with her husband during the harsh winter at Valley Forge and was credited with keeping up the soldier’s spirits.

The line drawings depict the life of a wealthy family in the colonies…Indian scouts interrupt dinner to relay reports and black slaves keep the plantation running smoothly.

How a parent can use this book:

We need to encourage girls to dream and set goals…whichever ones they wish. These days, girls can set their sights on any job in any sector…they can even think about living in the White House…not as a First Lady, but as the President. The book can also be used to compare life now and then…parent and child can make a list of how things were done then and note how things are different these days.

Related Activities:


What a simple recipe…kids will love to help prepare these yummy cookies!


Recipe and photo from:

You will need: 2 eggs whites, 1 cup pecan halves, 1½ tsp vanilla extract, 2/3 cup packed brown sugar, ½ tsp salt, electric mixer, greased cookie sheet.


  1. Preheat oven to 250 degrees F (120 degrees C).
  2. Beat egg whites and salt until foamy; gradually add brown sugar and vanilla.
  3. Continue beating until stiff peaks are formed. Fold in pecan halves.
  4. Drop by teaspoon onto greased cookie sheet. Bake for 1 hour.


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I also wanted to mention that Marilou, over at Spanish Pinay, did a special post, honoring several mommies with the Positive Parental Participation Blogger’s Award:

49 thoughts on “Martha Washington: America’s First First Lady

    • I agree, Wendy. It’s important for us to offer kids books with strong and successful female characters. I didn’t know that Martha had spent time at Valley Forge with her husband and served as an inspiration to the soldiers.


  1. Perfect choice for Presdient’s Day this week. There is very little written about Martha Washington for children, but I’ve read a lot in adult books. She was an important person in history and I’m glad children can read about her.


    • I know that I never learned about her when I was in school…and it would have been such a valuable lesson to learn that this tomboy of a girl grew up to be a woman who had the courage to inspire the troops at Valley Forge. That was certainly not in the textbooks.:)   


    • I was surprised to find such a fun and interesting book about Martha Washington…especially because it begins with her childhood. From 1986, it’s one of the old-fashioned ‘chapter’ books. And there are plenty of illustrations that help give the sense of what thinks actually looked like. Glad you liked it, Amy!


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  5. This is a great book idea for kids of both sexes. I read books about girls and women with my boys and they don’t seem to mind, as long as it’s not ridiculously cheesy and girly (there are a lot of books like that, unfortunately).


    • I’m glad you liked it, August! My blogging mission is to always try to connect my posts with parent/child issues and concerns…and ‘The Beauty of a Woman BlogFest II’ seemed like a perfect opportunity to offer a book for kids about a strong and courageous young girl.:)


  6. And the cookies are gluten free! 😀 I’m aka @GlutenNaziMom, so your recipe made an impression. I love that you said girls can aspire to be president, and think that’s definitely something we could see with the next election. I have an essay being published in the upcoming book, 51%: Women and the Future of Politics, and the tag line is WWWD–What Would Women Do? Or What WILL Women Do? Be totally awesome, that’s what I think!


    • Hi Renee,
      Thanks for stopping by and adding your impassioned plea…it is sad…as parents and teachers, we need to encourage girls and engage with them in meaningful conversations. The media has a big negative influence as well.


    • I’m sure you try to do the same, Susanna, with all you have on your plate…and maybe, if you make the recipe, you will have to add cookies to that plate.:) Are you guys getting more snow tomorrow…we are supposed to…I hope there’s not too much…I’m supposed to go to a really interesting talk on The Woman as Hero (like Joseph Campbell’s Hero/Mythology studies), but examining the role of women as the hero in books.


  7. Wonderful cookie recipe, Vivian! We have a good friend in Colorado Springs–a former history teacher who is 6’4″ and looks and dresses up like George Washington for school and professional performances –and he can’t have gluten. He’ll love the Martha Washington recipes!


  8. I love what you chose to do for this BOAW blog fest! As a child, my favorite books were history ones about women: Elizabeth Blackwell, Helen Keller, and of course all the Dear America series. We need role models throughout our years to show us what’s possible!


    • Thanks, Jess! It is so important for kids to have great role models. I love this book series because it enables girls to see what amazing people the First Ladies of our country have been. Maybe, one day in the future, we will have books about the First Gentlemen. 🙂


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