To Write Or Not To Write: Letters To My Kids
In honor of Father’s Day (which is next Sunday, June 16), I was asked to contribute to Bob Brody’s Letters to My Kids blog.
Bob is passionate about encouraging parents to write letters to their kids to share family stories…this helps kids gain a sense of self-worth and a stronger parent-child bond.
Here is the link for the Father’s Day post: http://letterstomykidsdotorg.wordpress.com/2013/06/10/fathers-day-guest-columnist-vivian-kirkfield-never-enough-but-always-plenty/
I also participated on Bob’s blog for Mother’s Day and wrote a letter to my children about my own mother: http://letterstomykidsdotorg.wordpress.com/2013/05/24/guest-columnist-vivian-kirkfield-the-grandmother-you-hardly-knew/
When and what should parents write letters to their kids?
- On holidays or special occasions
- To share your own childhood experiences
- To share things that happened when they were very young
- To relate interesting family stories
- To say I’m sorry
- To congratulate them on an accomplishment or goal reached
Many years ago, when my children were very young and they wanted to give me a gift for a birthday or other special time, I would tell them, “Write me a love letter!” Those letters and cards that they made themselves are still tucked away carefully and treasured by me. When your children give you a gift like that, it will outlast any box of candy, bouquet of flowers or trinket they might find at the store.
- When grief darkens Father’s Day: Tips for coping and honoring dad (mlive.com)
- Mothers’ Advice For Father’s Day (modernmanofthecloth.com)
- Father’s Day Quote | Father Day Quotes | Top Ten (whenfathersday.wordpress.com)
Posted on June 10, 2013, in Family communication, Father's Day, Letters to my Kids, Mother's Day and tagged Bob Brody, Family communication, Father's Day, grandparents, Letters to my Kids, Mother's Day. Bookmark the permalink. 14 Comments.