Make-A-Meal Mondays: President’s Day Special

A pair of cherries from the same stalk. Prunus...

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Every four years, the citizens of the United States have the opportunity to choose a new president who will hopefully lead the country on an upward path of economic and social reform, while staying within the budget.

Every day, three times each day, moms (and sometimes dads) have the opportunity to choose a new dish to serve to their families that will hopefully provide good nutrition and good taste, while staying within the budget.

Hmmm…have you also seen the similarity between running the country and running a household? 🙂

It is true, though, that the responsibility of putting high quality, highly nutritious¸ good-tasting, affordable meals on the table is a heavy one.  I thought that since today is President’s Day, I should offer up a recipe that includes CHERRIES as one of the ingredients.

Why cherries you might ask? 

I’m sure most of you know the story of our first president, George Washington, and the incident with the cherry tree.  As it was told when I was in school, young George went out into the garden with a new hatchet and chopped down a young cherry tree.   When questioned by his father as to whether or not he did it, George replied, “I cannot tell a lie.  It was I who chopped down the cherry tree.”   His father, impressed with his young son’s honesty, did not punish him, but praised him for telling the truth.

Of course, the moral of the little tale is that we should always tell the truth…no matter what we have done or what the consequences of our actions might be.  I know this is what we teach our children…and this week I’ll be examining the topic of honesty in many of my posts.  And, if you are looking for any information or resources about President’s Day, hop over to Mirth and Motivation.  The author of that blog is the consummate researcher…a great writer and funny to boot!  And she is having a Mega-Blog Hop…if you join, you will meet a bunch of awesome bloggers!

But for now, I’d like to provide you with a recipe for lovely child-friendly fruit crisp…full of super foods…and with the option of using cherries (sometimes they are available only in season and can be quite expensive) or substituting other fruits.

CHILD-FRIENDLY COLORFUL FRUIT CRISP

You will need: 5 cups mixed fruit, washed and then sliced if necessary (peaches, plums, apricots, strawberries, blueberries, cherries, apples), ÂĽ cup white sugar, ÂĽ cup orange juice, 1 tsp lemon juice, 3 Tb flour (for the fruit), ÂĽ cup flour (for the topping), 2 cups rolled oats, ÂĽ cup brown sugar, 1 tsp cinnamon, ÂĽ cup healthy margarine softened, a greased 9×13 inch pan, and 2 large bowls.

1.     In a large bowl, gently toss fruit with white sugar, orange juice and lemon juice.

2.     Sprinkle with 3 Tb flour, toss gently again and spread in the greased pan.

3.     In another bowl, mix oats, brown sugar, cinnamon and the remaining flour. 

4.     Add the margarine and mix till crumbly.

5.     Sprinkle crumbly mixture over fruit.

6.     Bake 20-25 minutes at 375 degrees until fruit is tender and topping is golden brown.

7.     Serve warm or at room temperature.

8.     Store leftovers in a covered container in the fridge.

9.     Serves about 12.

This recipe has so many super foods: oats, orange juice, lemon juice, cinnamon and all of the fruits…even though it is a dessert, you can rest easy giving it to your family because it is so high in nutrition and fiber while being fairly low in added sugar and fat.  Plus, it is really simple to prepare…your young children will love to help with the measuring and mixing.  It’s only one of the 100 easy-to-make child-friendly healthful recipes you’ll find in my new parenting book, on sale now for a limited time on my website for half price!  Check it out…I think you’ll be glad you did…it takes the hassle out of planning activities with preschoolers.

I hope you’ll stop by tomorrow for Quotable Timeless Tuesdays…for an honest look at honesty.

Lesson #1 of Nanny McPhee: NO FIGHTING

Two Sisters

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Do you have siblings?  Do you remember fighting with them when you were children?

I can remember back when my older sister and I were growing up.  Because she was older, she had “more stylish” clothes…and I was JEALOUS.  So, after she had gone to school, I would wear one of her sweater sets.  Of course, it didn’t fit me the way it fit her…I was younger and a little chubby and so I stretched out the knitted fabric.  How angry at me she was when she got home…and deservedly so!  We would get into a fight…she would yell and push me…I would strike back…grabbing her hand and bending her finger back.   OUCH!!!!  Then she would hit me and I would cry and our mother would come in to see what was going on.  My sister would be scolded and sometimes spanked and I would run to my bed and cry.  When my mom would come to ask me why I was crying, I would tell her that I didn’t want my sister to be punished….and I really didn’t.  I just wanted to be able to wear the nicer clothing. 🙂

It seems to be the “natural order” of things…TO FIGHT FOR ATTENTION, TO FIGHT TO GET WHAT WE WANT, TO FIGHT TO KEEP WHAT IS OURS.

If we look around the world, we see that there is fighting going on some level in almost every corner of the world…and this has been going on since forever.

What is it about mankind?  Are we made this way?  Can we not help ourselves?  Is there no alternative?

I am not going to debate this issue on a global level.  There are enough people doing that already.  So I will stick to relating it to parenting.

Can parents issue a NO FIGHTING rule at home and expect to see it carried out?

I believe so.

Perhaps the success of this rule will hinge on putting into place three components of a balanced and harmonious life which is what Nanny McPhee did and, even without magic, we can do it to:

1.     DISCIPLINE

2.     MANNERS

3.     ACCEPTING THE CONSEQUENCES OF ONE’S ACTIONS

It’s definitely easier to start when children are VERY young, but IT’S NEVER TOO LATE!

You’ll be glad you did!  And amazingly, so will your children!

How do you handle fighting between siblings?  Or between your children and their friends? 

 

Stop by tomorrow for a look at Nanny McPhee’s Lesson #2: SHARE WITH OTHERS.

The Five Lessons of Nanny McPhee: Are They Valid for our Children Today?

Have you seen the movie, “Nanny McPhee”?

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My husband and I recently watched the sequel, “Nanny McPhee and the Big Bang”.  The original movie came out in 2005 and took place in 19th century England.  A widower is unable to raise his seven children on his own and the children have systematically gotten rid of seventeen nannies before Nanny McPhee appears and saves the day.  The sequel debuted last year and takes place in the English countryside during World War II,   We are introduced to the harried mother whose husband is off defending the country and whose three rambunctious young children never seem to listen to her and are constantly fighting with each other. (Let me know if this sounds familiar.) 🙂

Into the picture comes Nanny McPhee, a no-nonsense woman who has unseen powers and a gift for bringing calm and order to a situation filled with upheaval and chaos. (Nanny McPhee, where are you?)

What struck me, though, were the FIVE LESSONS the children had to learn while under Nanny McPhee’s care.  I truly believe that these are FIVE LESSONS THAT EVERY KID SHOULD LEARN and use, whether at home, in school or ANYWHERE.

1.     NO FIGHTING

2.     SHARE

3.     WORK TOGETHER

4.     BE BRAVE

5.     HAVE FAITH

Don’t you think it would be a wonderful thing if every man, woman and child on the face of the earth could learn these lessons?

After doing some research, I learned that back in August, Twitter Moms (now Social Moms) had posed the following question on Facebook, “What are the 5 lessons every kid should learn?”  I’m sure they had a ton of responses.

But I’m going to stick with my original plan and, for the next five days, I’ll examine each of Nanny McPhee’s lessons to see how we can apply them as parents today.  If you look carefully, you will see that behind the actual lessons are three crucial components of a life lived in balance and harmony: DISCIPLINE, MANNERS, and ACCEPTING THE CONSEQUENCES OF ONE’S ACTIONS.

Your comments will add value to the post…are these the lessons you have taught your children?

Stop by tomorrow for a closer look at Lesson #1: NO FIGHTING